Get rid of all the tensions

Life is given to us only one time but we spend it only in the tensions sometimes the tensions for the worldly pursuits and sometimes the tensions generated from the feelings and sometimes tensions generated due to the Ego . We always think for the things which we do not have and for those things we start neglecting those things which we have . If we start loving things which we already have we will start loving life .
Happiness lies in all the small things if we water the plants and see a new pedal in the plant we will be very happy .If we watch the sensuousness in nature we can we full of pleasure , if we only imagine the success and the good time we can be happy by thinking only that once God has given us such a beautiful time also but whenever we think about the good memories we miss them and be sad that why we do not have them now and when we look at the bad time then we again become sad thinking that why we had that bad memory, the things can change if we change our mentality only .We get pleasure and sadness only through mind . If we get control over our mind we can get rid of all the problems.